IDEA152: Mix Culture & Romance–A Recipe for First Timers in Rome

To celebrate my birthday Vito and I booked a trip to the one and only, eternal city of Rome. I have been to Rome a few times having studied in Italy, but it was going to be Vito's first time there. Quite a responsibility to introduce this magical city to someone and still have plenty of time to simply luxuriate in piazzas and people watch which is MY favorite thing to do. Oh and I must mention that we would only have two full days there as this was to be our maiden voyage outside of the country sans kids.  

Clearly a strategic master plan would be needed in this race against the clock to discover all "must see" mysteries of Rome and still experience the dolce far niente (it's sweet to do nothing) lifestyle. Good thing I'm an expert in planned romance! 

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1st Ingredient - A plush place to stay

The first ingredient in the recipe for a romantic getaway in Rome is plush accommodations. Sure you don't plan on staying inside much when you only have 2 days to see all of Rome but nothing will help to set a romantic tone better then waking up in a swanky private apartment with a sexy view of the city.

My go-to secret address is: Romeloft.com 

2nd Ingredient - A quintessential Roman breakfast 

There is no need to scour books and blogs to find out the best place to have breakfast in Rome because breakfast magic happens right in your "local" bar just down the stairs from wherever it is you're staying. Do breakfast like the locals meaning a cappuccino or a latte macchiato with a croissant (go ahead and make it a chocolate one!) while standing up at the bar counter. You must first confidently stroll straight to the register and pay receiving a little ticket which you then give to the bar tender along with your order. You stand at the marble counter with everyone else as you eat your breakfast. (Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to sit later when its aperitif time. And just fyi, it costs extra to sit down at a table.) 

3rd Ingredient - A strategic plan of action

We had just two full days to give Vito a complete Rome 101 overview as well as satisfy my desire for the relaxed dolce vita experience so knowing when and where to go was of the essence. My tool of choice - Jauntful.  It's incredibly easy to use, you just click and add the sites, and they are magically placed on the map. You can then email yourself a nice printable PDF. 

For day one we packed in all the historical sites in the morning starting at the Colosseum and working our way north. Slower activities are planned for after lunch such as the Spanish Steps and walk along a shopping street Via Corso. Absolutely build in time to relax before dinner, it breaks up the day nicely and serves to make sure you're fresh to enjoy a late dinner (8.30pm is the normal dinnertime) and some few glasses of wine... 

For day two our first stop was the Vatican. (NOTE: Wednesdays and of course Sundays are days to have audience with the Pope, unless you specifically want to hear the service I suggest going on other days of the week when its a lot less crowded.) After that we headed to Trastevere for the rest of the day. 

4th Ingredient: The WOW moment.

Every trip has to have one. The waw moment is that magical moment when you stand back and really acknowledge what an amazing time you're having. Sure you can't exactly plan for it, but you can certainly create a favorable atmosphere. The easiest way to put yourself in the mood to be amazed are view points, or "inspiration points" if you will. In Rome there are obviously plenty of those but the one I recommend is where you are on the other side of the Tiber river and can view Rome in all it's 360 degree glory. And this place is: Gianicolo or Janiculum Hill. Take a taxi up the hill to the gorgeous Aqua Paola Fountain and then walk up the rest of the way to the Piazza Giuseppe Garibaldi on the very top. Ponder your life in general and how fantastic it is to be in Rome in particular... 

5th Ingredient - Get lost artfully. 

Now, there is lots of advice out there abdout getting lost in a new city and surprising yourself with what you discover. That's all nice for someone with unlimited amount of time. But like I said, Vito and I had 48 hours only, so getting lost had to be done in a productive, structured way. So! On the second day after a busy morning at the Vatican museums it was time for a few hours of relaxation. One neighborhood I really wanted to explore was Trastevere and after our WAW moment at the Gianicolo, armed with just a general direction of where we needed to head we made our way down the hill and down the stone staircase into the depth of narrow cobblestone streets. The only destination in mind being a picturesque place for an afternoon espresso... We discovered adorable boutiques, pretty hidden churches, tiny piazzas with fountains, every turn tempting us as we happily gave in.
 

Here is my "expert" summary of how to get lost artfully:

1 - Pick a location with many different things to see in a defined area.

2 -Know the outer boundaries of the area that will signal that you've wandered too far.

3 - Have an experience in mind and a plan "B" ready in case getting lost is not happening as artfully as you envisioned.

I had a map and an X on it for a place to have our picturesque espresso. What do you know, wandering about eventually brought us to that very piazza though we realized it only after we got up from our magic espressos walking a few steps further to walk right by the cafe "X" on my map. 

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Don't wait for 'wow' moments to happen.
Create them. 

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IDEA151: Travel the World in your Baby Bag (6 Amazing Natural Products)

For whatever reason both Vito and I were convinced that we were having a girl when I was pregnant with Mo. During my 20th week echo we asked the nurse to 'zoom' in so we can know the sex. She zoomed in, we saw, but we were in denial. "What is it, what is it?" We asked. She simply smiled and typed on the monitor: "Hurrah it's a boy!" Because I was so convinced that it'll be a girl, I immediately had to let go of the frilly dresses dancing in my head, the cutesy plastic play pearls and the shimmery organic glosses me and my girl would share. Later, the story repeated itself on the 16th week echo with Vin. (Poor Vito had to let go of the vision of his daughter winning the Miss Universe pageant, which our daughter would have inevitably won.) 

After getting over the initial surprise, I started constructing a brand new vision in my mind consisting of adorable overalls, raised collar polos and tiny little bow ties. This however still left the dilemma of cosmetics sharing that I envisioned... But to come to terms with that I have a bit more time, for now I've discovered it is absolute FUN to raid my baby's diaper bag! 

And of course in true globe loving fashion, it's really a trip around the world in one diaper bag...

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Here is what I'm getting grabby with: 

1 - Pitta Patta Calm & Content Moisturizing Lotion from Australia (Worldwide)

Uses for baby: This is deliciously scented (with lavender essential oil) light and smooth lotion. Perfect for baby massages after a bath.  

Uses for mommy: Guess who sneaks this out of the nursery in the morning? Moi! I find this makes a wonderful face and neck moisturizer for the colder windier weather. It's super light and possibly because of the essential oils leaves your face with a dewy glow. 
 

2 - Bjobji Lenitive Diaper Cream from Italy (Worldwide)

Uses for baby: Diaper area. It's unscented and once again really light and smooth. I don't like diaper creams that are thick and sticky. Most creams (and Vaseline) protect the skin from wetness but also seal off the pores not allowing the skin to breathe normally. This natural cream protects but does not block pores. I love it for Vin! 

Uses for mommy: Ok, this might be a bit funny, but this is great as a blemish spot treatment... I don't know why, but it works. I guess because it contains zinc oxide to help keep diaper area dry, so it helps to dry the blemish. Just wash your hands after you apply it to your baby's bum ;)  (I'm not a doctor, just letting you know it works for me. And btw... still waiting for that day when blemishes don't appear anymore.) 
 

3 - Weleda Baby Calendula Shampoo and Body Wash from Switzerland (Worldwide)

Uses for baby: This is a divinely scented cream wash. Because this does not have chemicals it doesn't make crazy sudds and is super gentle and easy to rinse your baby with. I used it on Mo as a baby, and still do! And now I was baby Vin with this also. Little bit goes a long way. 

Uses for mommy: I love this as face wash! Just a tiny dab of it washes the face perfectly without giving you that horrible 'squeaky clean' feel. It is super gentle and let's your face keep its moisture.
 

4 - Gwdihw Cheeky Cherub Baby Balm from North Wales, UK (Worldwide)

Uses for baby: I use this for Vin's cheeks (face cheeks that is). We don't use the little hand gloves to protect him from scratching himself because he just sucks on them. So for the occasional inevitable scratch I use this balm and within 20 minutes the scratch magically disappears! I also use it for any dry skin patch.  

Uses for mommy: Besides this product coming in a cute little tin, it's a bit of a miracle worker on many levels! This makes a PHENOMENAL cuticle treatment. After using this I threw my expensive fancy vitamin E one out the window (well, figuratively). I'm constantly touching the baby and he is grabbing my fingers and then sucking his hands so I can't have anything yucky on my fingers. I also use this around the eye area. It instantly perks up the skin around the eyes. This also makes a wonderful primer. I put some around my nose and cheeks and the make-up glides on beautifully and helps the color to really blend into the skin. Love, love, love stealing (I mean BORROWING) this! 
 

5 - Purelan by Medela Nipple Cream (100% Lanolin) from Switzerland. (You should be able to find this, or another brand of 100% lanolin in a baby supplies store in your country.) 

This is pure lanolin without any additives, which is pretty much fat secreted by sheep to protect their coat from the environment. It's a 100% natural product and safe to ingest, so you don't have to remove it from your nipple before breastfeeding. Yet at the same time it's an incredibly strong balm! A small 40g tube will literally last forever. Even when you're done breastfeeding keep it for the winter. It'll make perfect hand cream! This I would compare to gardener's balm. It literally repairs cracked skin, but why wait, just use it to prevent cracking. Also great on feet after a good scrub. 

6 - Naty by Nature Babycare Eco-Sensitive Fragrance-Free Wipes from Sweden.
(Check listing for your country)

Uses for baby: THESE are the most amazing wipes ever! I've used these on Mo and now on Vin neither of them have ever had a diaper rash/redness. 

Uses for mommy (or I should say, the house): I wipe everything with them. Kitchen counter, little spills, hands. ETC. I keep a pack in my kitchen drawer for when I need a small damp cloth for... anything. Yes, they sell special packets of wipes in the kitchen cleaning department, but I find those have too many chemicals and are overly perfumed for the kitchen counter where I clean fruit, or lay a piece of bread. 

I'm so glad I've discovered these! It's understandable that brands need to choose how they market their products and sticking with messaging to the target market, but it's too bad more people don't come into contact with these great, gentle products unless they've had a baby themselves. So! Don't ignore the baby section next time you're shopping for beauty products!
 

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If your intention is to learn,
you can learn something new even from a baby. 

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IDEA150: Have the Perfect Fika Break

"Fika", in the Nordic countries, is a special way to have a coffee break. It requires stopping what you're doing to enjoy the moment in accompaniment of coffee, something sweet to eat and good company. In Sweden coffee breaks are mandated by law and an employee earns 5 minutes for every hour at work to have a nice coffee break which everyone usually takes at 10 in the morning and again at 3 in the afternoon. (With the help of my trusty calculator this averages out to 20 minutes per break if you work an 8 hour day.) Inspired by Maria's sunny fika in the park and spurred on by the resolution to create new traditions, I have decided to also give it a try. Then another... and another... 

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{ Fika With A View } 

Above is a fika moment from last weekend in Porto, Portugal from our hotel's breakfast terrace. Coffee with marmalade croissant and a little fruit cup. I traveled with three friends (ladies on tour!) but since I'm a chronic early riser this was a moment for myself to enjoy the view and to journal about all the discoveries from the day before. Good company is actually one of the required elements for a great fika, but there is nothing wrong with having a fika all by yourself as long as you're taking in the moment.  Besides, me, myself and I are lovely companions!   

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{ Fika On The Beach} 

Back home in Holland... during warm spring and summer weekends when the sun is shining we like to take the kids to the beach. There is a magical place with in-ground trampolines, slides and a whole menagerie of toys to play in the sand with. The magic lies in the fact that parents can sit down in a civilized manner at tables and order adult beverages all in view of their precious little princes and princesses jumping their brains out! This time it was the usual koffie verkeerd* for her and a cappuccino for him. When the nice waitress asked if we'd like cake, remembering that I now have a new fika tradition I quickly and rather loudly said: "Yes!" then I shyly pointed at Vito adding "one just for him". The only problem is that my husband is not a 'sharer' so I only got one measly little bite... of white fluffy heaven! We sat back in the sunshine enjoying the sea view and the bouncing children. 

*koffie verkeerd - translated from Dutch means "coffee done wrong" because it has "too much" milk. I would venture further to say that according to culturally conservative Dutch nature anything in abundance is considered over-indulgence and therefore wrong and thus too much milk in coffee is just "wrong". Well, to that I'll say: "if this is wrong, then I don't want to be right". 

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{ Fika, The Family Affair }  

Here is another perfect example of the fika. Last month we went on what has now become an annual Easter weekend family trip. We arrived at our Bungalow Park and instead of frantically trying to "settle in" our cabin we headed straight to a very cozy lounge with fireplace and view of the little lake for coffee and cakes. (I had one of my own this time.) It was a much better way to settle in and celebrate the start of a long weekend all together. 

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{ Fika Portuguese Style }  

Back to Porto! These are the famous pastel de nata, delicious creamy egg custard tart in flaky crust. Served warm with a sprinkling of cinnamon and nutmeg on top. These beauties were accompanies by a galão, the Portuguese version of cafe latte (or koffie verkeerd), served in a taller glass with a long spoon to mix copious amounts of sugar that you're expected to put in your coffee. This time we were all together having an afternoon pick me up after spending the entire day walking around Porto, making new friends, and getting used to inclines (Netherlands in contrast is very flat). 

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Take Us To Lunch : Scandinavian Living with Nordic Design Collective

This month's challenge is all about living La Dolce Vita. Of course we can learn a lot about that from the Italians and their picturesque Mediterranean land. But what can we learn from our neighbors to the North about living the sweet life? Well the best way to find out is to spend some time with our global neighbor there. Maria Richardsson, founder of Nordic Design Collective takes us to lunch in sunny Stockholm and sheds light on the Nordic perspective of enjoying life. 

So where are we going Maria? 

Magnolia is this wonderful bar, cafe, gallery and floral shop located just by Mariatorget at Södermalm, Stockholm. I love the atmosphere, it is intimate and creative but still with a lot of integrity. And every evening, they serve pinchos together with a glass of cava! What's not to love about the place...?

Since today is a sunny day, after lunch we will go to our favorite coffee shop Drop Coffee, grab a Latte to go and head for a bench in the park at Mariatorget to soak up some sun before it's time to head back to the office.

Tell us a bit about Nordic Design Collective and why you started it?

I started Nordic Design Collective as a way of helping independent designers in our region to grow their businesses, and to help people from all over the world to find these amazing products! I have a background as a graphic designer myself and from experience in the web industry I know how hard it can be to find customers for your products. And honestly, most designers started their business because they love creating...not sales and marketing. So I created this platform to enable people to connect with designers, buy their products and hear the stories behind their work.

(Check out #adayinalifeof series on NDC's instagram feed featuring behind the scenes work process of the designers in the collective.)  

So what can we learn about Scandinavian culture and living from Nordic design?

I often hear from people all over the world how much they love Swedish and Nordic design. I think it is the simplicity of it that speaks to people. We have a culture in our region of doing a lot ourselves, which I think has a big impact on the design style. Historically, there has been a focus on creating what you need for yourself, instead of hiring professionals, and this covers all sort of areas like building, redecorating, gardening, crafting, engineering etc. Combine that with the Jante-law, where you’re not to make a big fuss about yourself, and that might be a part of the explanation.

Scandinavian culture is founded on 
simplicity and sustainability.

What do you love about where you live? What do you love about your culture? 

Well, with having a long and grey winter behind us, we are all looking forward to spring - so I have to say, nature. We are very much an outdoorsy kind of people, and this time of year you always see a lot of people outside, turning their faces towards the sun. I've heard from foreigners that it looks kind of funny, but if you haven't lived in our winter for several months you really don't understand how much the Spring light means to us! Another very Swedish phenomena is the "fika," coffee breaks with cakes or cinnamon buns. Love it!

What inspires you daily?

I have to say our designers. They are adding new products daily, and it's always so inspiring to see their new pieces! We also try to meet with them regularly, and it is so great to hear their stories and their passion. It is a great honor to be able to work with all of them.

MARIA'S FAVORITES FOR STOCKHOLM:

Lunch Spot:
Magnolia Cafe, Gallery & Flowers, Blecktornsgränd 9, 118 24 Stockholm

Fika break:
Drop Coffee, Wollmar Yxkullsgatan 10 118 50 Stockholm

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Scandanavia has a sense of simplicity and sustainability, which is expressed in the design. By gathering the best new and upcoming independent designers, I can help people all over the globe to find interior objects and jewelry that speaks of a calmer and simpler way of life.
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Maria of Nordic Design Collective
(Photos via Maria)

Thank you so much Maria! ~ So it looks like keeping things in your home simple and multi-functional can help us easily create and enjoy sweet moments such as a cozy fika break with coffee and cake. By living in awe and fascination of nature we can learn to love all that it offers and never have to complain about the weather. Sweet life Scandinavian style is learning to simply be satisfied. Period. 

{ For Your Own "Fika" Break }

{ Let Nature In } 

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Induce a Dolce Vita Moment - Make Your Own Macadamia Nutmilk

So here's a revelation. Even organic processed nutmilks are still processed! Hubby and I decided to take things into our own hands and as a result, a healthy drink that transports us to an island (note to self: add to "Ways to Spoil an Island Lover") Give yourself 15 minutes and you'll feel so accomplished having made your very own milk from scratch! (Also, a special thanks to Monica of Hamsa Ayurveda & Yoga for sharing this recipe with me during my detox Panchakarma treatments with her earlier this year.)  
 

Homemade Macadamia Nutmilk 

• 1 cup raw macadamia nuts, (soaked 1 hour or longer) 
• 1 tablespoon vanilla bean, ground
• 2 tablespoon coconut oil 
• 4 cups purified water
• 1/8 cup agave (or preferred sweetner) 
• 1/8 teaspoon sea salt 
• Nutmilk bag 

1 - Create the base of the nutmilk.
Blend nuts and water in a blender on a "liquefy" setting. (I prefer using a vitamix.) Strain to separate the liquid from the solid chunks of nuts. I use a nutmilk bag, and squeeze the heck out of it, but a really fine strainer may work as well. 
 

2 - Add the spices.
Pour the liquid portion back into the blender/vitamix. Add the coconut oil, vanilla bean and sea salt. I buy the vanilla bean whole and grind it in a mortar and pestle. Give everything a final spin!

By the time you're sipping on this nutmilk, you'll find yourself induced into a La Dolce Vita moment from the intoxicating scent of the vanilla bean and creamy goodness.

You'll swear you feel the sun and breeze on your face...

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LLYT Challenge : Live La Dolce Vita

I spent a few glorious days in Rome last week for my birthday! There were romantic walks along the Tiber river with the dusk setting. There was taking in of the sites punctuated by tiny magical espressos. Afternoons were spent leisurely sampling wines in piazzas overlooking century old works of art. It was a total disconnect from everyday life and a complete immersion in "La Dolce Vita." The few days Vito and I spent in Rome seemed like a full two weeks.  

I got inspired to break down the whole concept of "La Dolce Vita." Clearly living la dolce vita is not only for the Romans, though of course the architecture, cozy piazzas to canoodle over a glass of wine, and the moonlight basking in the cool surfaces of smooth naked marble forms...do help to put you in the mood. So, what what can we learn from the Italian way of living life sweetly and how can we recreate it right where we are? 

Mid-afternoon espresso and tiramisu in Trastevere, Rome

Firstly, the translation of "La Dolce Vita," from Italian is "The Sweet Life." It is a way of living that is opulent, full of pleasures... physical and otherwise, full of romance, indulgence and luxury. That's right! I said romance, indulgence, opulence, and luxury! It's OK, I promise. In real terms it means to take time to enjoy life for no other reason but to receive pleasure... oh-oh.

Shockingly vulgar...don't you love it!?   

So how are we going to be a bit more like Marcello and Anita? By taking a few regular every day things and dolce-vitafying* them:
 

Dolce-vita-fy, verb  
(according to the OTSP dictionary)
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To up the glamour quotient, to make more sexy, to make something enjoyable for no reason other then to luxuriate in the moment. To take the ordinary and make it extraordinary. Synonyms: glamorize, sexify, romanticize, elevate

Regular: Drinking water 
Dolce Vita! Drinking water out of a crystal wine glass with an ice cube and a lemon slice!

Regular: Sleeping
Dolce Vita! Sleeping on 500 thread count sheets wearing naughty little silk something!

Regular: Dinner (in the company of baby spitting peas and 3 yr old re-enacting fire rescue operation on the table)
Dolce Vita!-ish Dinner with a glass of wine, candle light and a bud vase bouquet on the table (+ baby & 3 yr. old)
 
Regular: Manicure
Dolce Vita! Manicure in bright red, magenta, orange, neon or any other color that makes you feel like the type of woman who kisses men in dark alleys and jumps into fountains!

Now that we've extensively defined what La Dolce Vita means we can introduce the challenge for April...

Create Your Dolce Vita Challenge

Reflecting lights in the Tiber river, Rome (More pics from my birthday getaway.) 

La Dolce Vita moments regardless of the myth, don't "just happen" and they are not only reserved for Rome and Romans. I in fact clearly saw said Romans in their cars yawning and looking not amused stuck in after work rush hour traffic along the Tibor river completely oblivious to the beautiful scenery. This just proves the point that these moments need to be CREATED and furthermore you have to put yourself in the MOOD for them.  

Thus in order to successfully create dolce vita moments you need to have these 2 elements: 

1. Ease of execution - so that when inspiration strikes you it's not a whole big production to set-up a certain atmosphere, situation or experience. Also if it's easy and accessible then you will want to have more and more of these moments!

2. Mood - yes if you yourself don't feel like the star of a sexy Italian movie then you won't really want dolce vita moments. And notice that you have to PUT yourself in the mood, not 'wait' to be in the mood.

The Approach

Plan ahead for spontaneity:
Think about what kind of dolce vita moments you'd like to enjoy, visualize them, think about where they're happening and the kind of mood you're in... Is it a prosecco lunch al fresco? A candle lit evening at home? A rowdy family brunch with freshly baked bread and adorable kids wearing cute outfits? 

Figure out what "props" and "gear" you need to execute the setting. A picnic basket for an impromptu dinner fuori (outside)? Beautiful candles for a romantic dinner per due? Having a clean and organized house to lounge around in or spontaneously invite friends for a cocktail?

- Get your home ready room by room for dolce vita moments 
- Take 'inventory' of what you have and what you need to the dolce vita moments you wnat

Always be in the mood: 
What puts you in a good mood? What makes you 'ready' for an adventure? (And how you define "adventure" is absolutely non of my business...) Does it take a good hair day? Mani/pedi? Working out? Statement necklace? High heels? Latin music? Then make it happen - everyday. What gives you energy and inspiration? Do more of it - daily!

Aspetta! (wait), you say, you mean "spontaneous" and "effortless" dolce vita moments actually require PREPARATION!? Si si, correct! Feel free to call me a soul sucking killer of romance, but you'll be thanking me when you're lounging around in over-sized sunglasses on your sexy lawn furniture sipping Ferrarelle water from long stemmed champagne glass with a strawberry perched on the rim. 

Now let's go prepare for La Dolce Vita!

Doesn't spring cleaning now seem like making love to Adonis in the afternoon on the black sands of a secluded Mediterranean volcanic island!? (Stromboli btw.)
 

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LLYT Challenge : Be a Lifelong Student (Wrap Up)

Wow was it just me...or did March blow by? Nevertheless, it was a fruitful month for our March Challenge to learn something new, in the spirit of being a lifelong student. oh yes AND don't get us started on its anti-aging effects! Yes people, approaching life with an eagerness to learn and be inspired keeps us young at heart! We continue to gain new insights and see that there are so many possible experiences to be had.

Here's a quickie on what Alla & I have been up to this month...

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Learn Something New 

Me: Learn how to cook fish. (pictured above)
Why? - I went on a 9 day detox which also coincided with an elimination diet to try to understand which foods are wreaking havoc on me. I tend to get hives or just get plain itchy, due to food sensitivities. This detox included a shake from Metagenics, which is meant to support the liver through the detoxing process. You begin by eliminating sugar, dairy and grains until you're only eating cruciferous greens and fish and the shake. Being that I needed to eat fish everyday for a week...it was the perfect time to learn how to season and prepare something that had always seemed a bit exotic for me. 

What I got out of it - I got over the mental block that fish would be something that would take me forever to learn. I have been so excited to make my own mango salsa as a dressing and I could not wait to eat it! Hubby and I were so enthralled by our meal that we ate in silence for a portion of it, too busy being seduced by the fresh and vibrant flavors. It was also the first time that I tried using apple cider vinegar in a salad dressing. It was so refreshing with a barely there touch of sweetness. Not only did learning about fish force me to think about new ways to season, I also got to a point where I was no longer having physical reactions. Another bonus...we were learning how to prepare food in a way that was quick (baking fish along with roasted veggies, or simple salads) and adding to our repertoire of healthy-delicious-but-do-able dishes!

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Me: Pick up African Dance. 
Why? - After being cooped up in the house all winter...I needed to MOVE! And I don't know of a dance that is more freeing (yet controlled). Oh and also because I totally have a thing for live drumming! I'm excited I found a really great teacher, Tosha (pictured). Near the end of class when we've got the choreography down, she jumps on these drums joining the main drummer and the vibration of all them literally move you! Here's a taste of the drumming if you're curious.

What I got out of it - While I have a background in yoga and definitely rely on it for centering and therapeutic affects, sometimes only one kind of activity doesn't cover what I need at the time. This kind of new activity was exactly what I needed to jolt me out of my winter coma. Also, in trying something new, I recruited friends to come along and I saw how positively it affected them (which I love) and it meant I got a chance to see these friends more frequently. Pluses all around. 

Founder Tosha 'Ayo' Alston of Ayodele Drum & Dance

Alla: Start learning and practicing flower arranging.  
Why? - I always say that when I'm disgustingly rich I will have a florist on my speed dial and they'll deliver a fantastic new bouquet to my gigantesque villa every Friday. Then I stopped myself and said, well why can't I just have such luxury now? Is it really about having a huge complicated bouquet on my table obscuring my view of Vito's red beard while we eat dinner? No. I just want some fresh flowers peaking out here and there to surprise the senses. I knew Mu-Hsien is the queen of bud vase bouquets, but not until she broke it down in her glimpse post that it struck me that I could try it too! 

What I got out of it - Fresh flowers really bring in a bit of luxury into the home and making bud vase bouquets is an affordable way to have something brand new every week. My oldest son, Mo, loves going to the market with me to choose new flowers for the week, it's our little adventure. Feeling like a countess in my villa... priceless!     

Using shot glasses to create a bud vase composition. 

Alla: Cook pheasant.  
Why? - I actually joined Vito on this as it was really HIS challenge. He was hosting a manly dinner at our house and fittingly thought wild game and "old man's" liquor would fit the bill. After a consultation at our poultry shop, he decided to try making pheasant which had to be procured for him. After hearing his chosen recipe, Pheasant in calvados sauce with apples, I of course got jealous and demanded he make this dinner for me too!  We had so much fun cooking this and it turned out incredible! It also gave us a chance to make some inroads into our bottle of calvados which I'm obsessed with ever since reading Hemingway's "The Sun Also Rises".   

What I got out of it - This was a great reminder that many experiences that you think can only happen elsewhere, can actually be created right at home! You don't have to go to a restaurant to eat seemingly complicated things like pheasant. And you definitely don't need to be in Normandy to indulge in a little nip of calvados.  

Vito's pheasant in calvados sauce over buttery apples!

Of course...we don't want to be having all of the fun ourselves. We invite you to do these challenges with us and share your progress in our OTSP Global Neighbors private group! It's a private experimentation space where you can ask neighbors questions about challenge ideas you're considering, motivate and inspire together. Leave a comment or let us know if you would like to join this talented and culturally diverse group of ladies.
 

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Be a lifelong student, because being a beginner
keeps you young at heart.  

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Design a Lifestyle You Love : Seeking Greener Pastures with Ashley of Wilson Creek Pottery

I feel fortunate to know Ashley and Shannon of Wilson Creek Pottery. They are light hearted, deeply passionate people who give freely, and refer to their closest friends as "superfriends." When we last spent time together, we went to visit them in their new home in idyllic Spring Green, Wisconsin. Still freshly inspired from their month long trip to India, Shannon taught me how to make Ghee and we feasted on homemade Indian food. We visited Ash's Pottery Studio, met a neighboring Rhasta donkey, played a riveting game of pictionary, ate inappropriately large amounts of warm pretzels & curds, and toured the Hindu Temple that happened to be on a nearby estate. It makes me smile just thinking about it. In a short weekend, Eric and I got a colorful taste of their new life.  

I witnessed them take a chance and move from the city they knew for years, to seek "greener pastures" with a new house and pottery business. I had to imagine there was a lot leading up to this decision. I wanted to know, how did they turn a "what if" into a reality? When I interviewed them for their story, they immediately brought up a guiding concept that has influenced their decisions. One that deeply resonated with me and set me on a my own course to make tremendous changes with my job and life. 

Choose a lifestyle, not a career.

Beginning in our early youth, we're conditioned to focus our attention on what career we'd want. Is that really the guidepost that would provide the fufillment that we seek? What would happen if we asked children "how do you want to live?" rather than "what do you want to be when you grow up?" This quote was exactly what I needed to hear at the time, and I'd like to share with you some key principles that supported their journey. For those who are on the fence...I hope it might be just what you need to spring into action!

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Get inspired & dig deep.
Ashley read and reflected on the insights of writers and luminaries that she admired, all of which guided her overall approach towards life. One person in particular, her art professor, John Slavik, also had a particularly strong influence. He achieved a balance that she had always wanted: he gave time to himself creatively as well as giving time to the people he loved. Also, there are sacrifices to consider with anything that you desire...whether that takes the form of money or time spent. For Ashley, it meant simplfying her life to gain more time. 

Give weight to what you want.
Ashley had a job she enjoyed. She was happy, but there were still facets of her life that were unfufilled. When Katrina happened, they wanted to be able to react quickly and help, but work schedules didn't allow for it. After several trips abroad were denied, it was clear her job situation was not aligned with how she wanted to be able to use her time. Outside of work, she and Shannon dreamt of a quiet life set in nature with neighboring animals. (Fainting goats and mini donkeys...to be specific!) They wanted to create a home for friends and family that was a sanctuary, yet offered new experiences. 

Let it reveal itself. Stay open and get out there.
Originally they weren't looking to buy a house, let alone a business. However, a dinner with her art professor's family led to discussions of a "what-if" opportunity. One where Ashley would have the chance to apprentice and transition a pottery business from the previous owner. Unsure, but open to the idea, they took a fun road trip to check out the house and studio. When they arrived, the ideas came pouring in. Suddenly, the space and the life that they could have, started to take shape in their minds.

Be courageous & stay the course. Gather like-minded support.  
Shannon provided a backbone of support to aid in taking the risk. The move to Wisconsin required a substancial investment and bet on a career that was uncertain and taking that leap was scary. But to Ashley,

"It was scarier to think that I might let it pass by." 

Create a legacy.
Pottery is especially meaningful to Ashley, "being that it's meant to be touched and used. To be shared during a meal, one of the most important things to do together." There is an intimate quality to her work because her pieces are tied to personal events for her customers. Wilson Creek Pottery, has been a go-to place for Spring Green locals to get gifts for weddings and special occassions for years. The pottery is durable and stays around so long that families collect and enjoy them generation after generation. And in the same spirit, Ashley hopes to carry the torch lit by Peggy Ahlgren (the previous potter of 40 years) while bringing to it a rustic, yet modern perspective. 

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I'm excited to see Ashley's work evolve and whether we're preparing or gathering around the table for a meal, we're reminded of Spring Green and a potter's loving touch. (Shown: Milk Jug Vase & Honey Pot) --> Visit Wilson Creek Pottery to see more of Ashley's designs. 

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IDEA148: Travel Like a Local & Swap Homes with a Global Neighbor

We recently wrote about vacation rental Kid & Coe homes with "fully stocked" kids rooms, and how it's really important to feel relaxed as a family when you travel. We now would like to introduce house swapping! A truly "my casa is your casa" way of travel. 

When our second son was born, it sort of struck us that in a few years when both kids are over 2 years old we will be paying for FOUR people every time we fly! Hmm... we pondered that for a minute or 60. Right, so there goes 3K out the window before we even REACH our destination. Then there is accommodation for 2+2, food and entertainment. Let's just say, I'm doing breathing exercises right now to ward off a panic attack. Enter: house swapping. You exchange homes (and possibly cars) for your vacation with someone else. Much more economical, not to mention being able to stay in a fully stocked functional home. 

Having someone you don't know stay in your house is a scary concept at first, but think about it, the other person is probably just as nervous as you are to leave all THEIR stuff. In a way, it is comforting that mutual trust is required. Imagine switching houses with friends? Or how about good friends of your friends? Less scary right? Well, the companies we found make house swapping a bit more warm and familiar for us with their concierge services. They all have a yearly membership fee, and with some for an additional fee they can actually help to match you with another swapper.      

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1 - HomeExchange.com $135/year (95.40 Euro)
This company was featured in the movie "The Holiday" and has been around since 1992. They have a huge variety of destinations and homes. A customer service rep comes on to chat with you as soon as you get on the site so it makes it friendly and easy to get started.    

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2 - Intervac.com 
These guys have been around since 1953! Year membership costs $110 (79Euro) and includes personal assistance from a local representative. Intervac has representatives in many countries that I imagine you can bug with all kinds of questions and hand-holding requests. They also have options for discounted rentals if someone is making their second home available.  

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3 - lovehomeswap.com 
The cost of membership is $200/year (144 Euro), and premium concierge service will run you about $360/year (264 Euro). It includes many extras like: consultation and matching, personal key exchange, flight and restaurant bookings, airport lounge entrance, and city guides. Yes, it's expensive but I personally believe that this price will encourage only those very serious about doing an exchange to participate. 

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4 - knok.com (top image)
Knok is a new house swapping site focusing on families. It has a feel of being in a club. With a price tag of around 500 Euro/year for a "Weekend tripper" option and a 1,300 Euro/year for a "Vacation tripper" option, it's indeed an expensive club. What's different about this is when you sign up and pay your fee you can immediately book either a 4 day weekend or an 8 day vacation. You "unlock" more days if you make your home available for stays when you're not there, thus making house swapping a bit more flexible since you don't necessary have to wait to match up with a family that wants to go on holiday exactly when you do. Also an upfront fee like these will probably ensure you're dealing with other families that are very serious about this form or travel. Another interesting feature is a user sourced guide of kid friendly places and things to do, and it is free. 

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5 - behomm.com 
Behomm is a special exchange place for creative people. These are homes where people, how shall I delicately put this, with heightened design sensibilities, like art directors, photographers, artists, designers, architects would feel right at home. I know this is exactly the kind of home exchange our very own, creative director, Mu-Hsien would enjoy! Her home is indeed Architecture Digest worthy.  

This isn't for everyone, you have to be a person who really feels comfortable trusting your own instinct and ability to assess another person without having met them. I've hired people over skype and they've turned out to be great choices so I do feel like I could be comfortable in this situation. I think if you can organize this experience to make yourself feel confident, imagine the benefits! You get to live in a REAL, actual house of someone in the country you're visiting! In a real neighborhood where other "normal" people live. This is the ultimate, "live like a local experience." I imagine it's also a chance to potentially make interesting new friends.   

I'm inspired! Hey, perhaps the next generation of this travel experience is to swap not only your house and car but your friends too! Come stay at my home and my friends will take you out!

{ To get more of a feel for what house swapping entails take a look at Magan's of Mapping Magan, interview with someone who has been house swapping for 6 years now. }

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LLYT Challenge : Be A Lifelong Student

Can I make a confession? I'm speeding at extremely high velocity towards my birthday. On March 26th, I will turn... let's just say, I will turn the age when I'm legitimately allowed to say things like: "Listen to me, I have a lot of life experience" while sagely gazing at the horizon. It's a nice feeling not to "have" to learn new things, but of course not having to do something is precisely what makes it fun to do. So here we are, we can finally enjoy learning but... now there seem to be a lot more obstacles standing in the way. The full time job, the family and children, limited budget... the wind blowing in the wrong direction, my alarm didn't go off, but my show is on TV... But even more prohibiting is this fear that if I start learning something new now, I'll never become an expert at it, so shouldn't I just concentrate on things that I have clocked 10,000 hours in already? (Have you read "Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell?) Very valid and logical concern.  Shall we call it "beginner's anxiety''? 

Who is that handsome pair in the photo? That's my grandparents. They really are life long students. That's them in 2007 on a Euro-trip, and they are serious when they travel, they go to museums with guides, not just sit in picturesque locations sipping drinks, like I do. Oh, and guess where they went the following year? Brazil and Argentina! Some people would ask why they wanted to go "so far" and my grandpa wold explain that it's simply because they haven't been there yet! My grandma would add that she had to accompany grandpa because she didn't trust him around all the exotic women. (My sweet grandma has passed away a few years ago, so now I guess it's my grandpa's turn to be concerned about her and all those handsome angels.)

Grandpa turned 90 this February. NINETY! He celebrated it on a cruise from New York to the Caribbean. (He has cut out the overnight bus transfers that he did in his 80's.) When I think of lifelong students, I definitely think of my grandparents. I have yet to encounter two people who are more in love with seeing and learning new things. 
 

MARCH CHALLENGE   

What is something you've been wanting to learn?

1 - Get started by learning it on your own or find a teacher/mentor. 
I am personally going to give myself a very easy assignment, which is to learn to style bouquets! I learn better and faster if someone teaches me, and who knew our very own Mu-Hsien is just the right person for the job!

2- Make time for it.
Find a spot for it on your calendar and go for it. Since I'm giving myself a super easy task that isn't very time consuming, I'll just go today and pick out some flowers for my first bouquet arrangement! { Learn flower arranging with me. Follow our Pinterest board: Bud Vase Love }

3- Practice what you're learning.
I will put it on my agenda to make one bud vase arrangement a week.   

Here's a peek:

Want to see how Mu-Hsien & I did with this challenge?
--> Challenge Wrap up
 

• • •   LESSONS LEARNED   • • •

Be a lifelong student, because being a beginner
keeps you young at heart.  

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