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Ideas to Turn your Everyday into An Exotic Adventure

June 11, 2014

IDEA152: Mix Culture & Romance–A Recipe for First Timers in Rome

by Alla Feldman in CONNECT, EXPLORE


Santa Cicilia in Trastevere.

Santa Cicilia in Trastevere.

Santa Cicilia in Trastevere.

Santa Cicilia in Trastevere.

To celebrate my birthday Vito and I booked a trip to the one and only, eternal city of Rome. I have been to Rome a few times having studied in Italy, but it was going to be Vito's first time there. Quite a responsibility to introduce this magical city to someone and still have plenty of time to simply luxuriate in piazzas and people watch which is MY favorite thing to do. Oh and I must mention that we would only have two full days there as this was to be our maiden voyage outside of the country sans kids.  

Clearly a strategic master plan would be needed in this race against the clock to discover all "must see" mysteries of Rome and still experience the dolce far niente (it's sweet to do nothing) lifestyle. Good thing I'm an expert in planned romance! 

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1st Ingredient - A plush place to stay

The first ingredient in the recipe for a romantic getaway in Rome is plush accommodations. Sure you don't plan on staying inside much when you only have 2 days to see all of Rome but nothing will help to set a romantic tone better then waking up in a swanky private apartment with a sexy view of the city.

My go-to secret address is: Romeloft.com 

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2nd Ingredient - A quintessential Roman breakfast 

There is no need to scour books and blogs to find out the best place to have breakfast in Rome because breakfast magic happens right in your "local" bar just down the stairs from wherever it is you're staying. Do breakfast like the locals meaning a cappuccino or a latte macchiato with a croissant (go ahead and make it a chocolate one!) while standing up at the bar counter. You must first confidently stroll straight to the register and pay receiving a little ticket which you then give to the bar tender along with your order. You stand at the marble counter with everyone else as you eat your breakfast. (Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to sit later when its aperitif time. And just fyi, it costs extra to sit down at a table.) 


3rd Ingredient - A strategic plan of action

We had just two full days to give Vito a complete Rome 101 overview as well as satisfy my desire for the relaxed dolce vita experience so knowing when and where to go was of the essence. My tool of choice - Jauntful.  It's incredibly easy to use, you just click and add the sites, and they are magically placed on the map. You can then email yourself a nice printable PDF. 

For day one we packed in all the historical sites in the morning starting at the Colosseum and working our way north. Slower activities are planned for after lunch such as the Spanish Steps and walk along a shopping street Via Corso. Absolutely build in time to relax before dinner, it breaks up the day nicely and serves to make sure you're fresh to enjoy a late dinner (8.30pm is the normal dinnertime) and some few glasses of wine... 

For day two our first stop was the Vatican. (NOTE: Wednesdays and of course Sundays are days to have audience with the Pope, unless you specifically want to hear the service I suggest going on other days of the week when its a lot less crowded.) After that we headed to Trastevere for the rest of the day. 

4th Ingredient: The WOW moment.

Every trip has to have one. The waw moment is that magical moment when you stand back and really acknowledge what an amazing time you're having. Sure you can't exactly plan for it, but you can certainly create a favorable atmosphere. The easiest way to put yourself in the mood to be amazed are view points, or "inspiration points" if you will. In Rome there are obviously plenty of those but the one I recommend is where you are on the other side of the Tiber river and can view Rome in all it's 360 degree glory. And this place is: Gianicolo or Janiculum Hill. Take a taxi up the hill to the gorgeous Aqua Paola Fountain and then walk up the rest of the way to the Piazza Giuseppe Garibaldi on the very top. Ponder your life in general and how fantastic it is to be in Rome in particular... 

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5th Ingredient - Get lost artfully. 

Now, there is lots of advice out there abdout getting lost in a new city and surprising yourself with what you discover. That's all nice for someone with unlimited amount of time. But like I said, Vito and I had 48 hours only, so getting lost had to be done in a productive, structured way. So! On the second day after a busy morning at the Vatican museums it was time for a few hours of relaxation. One neighborhood I really wanted to explore was Trastevere and after our WAW moment at the Gianicolo, armed with just a general direction of where we needed to head we made our way down the hill and down the stone staircase into the depth of narrow cobblestone streets. The only destination in mind being a picturesque place for an afternoon espresso... We discovered adorable boutiques, pretty hidden churches, tiny piazzas with fountains, every turn tempting us as we happily gave in.
 

Here is my "expert" summary of how to get lost artfully:

1 - Pick a location with many different things to see in a defined area.

2 -Know the outer boundaries of the area that will signal that you've wandered too far.

3 - Have an experience in mind and a plan "B" ready in case getting lost is not happening as artfully as you envisioned.

I had a map and an X on it for a place to have our picturesque espresso. What do you know, wandering about eventually brought us to that very piazza though we realized it only after we got up from our magic espressos walking a few steps further to walk right by the cafe "X" on my map. 

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• • •    LESSONS LEARNED    • • •

Don't wait for 'wow' moments to happen.
Create them. 

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April 2, 2014

LLYT Challenge : Live La Dolce Vita

by Alla Feldman


The fabled Trevi fountain, Rome

The fabled Trevi fountain, Rome

The fabled Trevi fountain, Rome

The fabled Trevi fountain, Rome

I spent a few glorious days in Rome last week for my birthday! There were romantic walks along the Tiber river with the dusk setting. There was taking in of the sites punctuated by tiny magical espressos. Afternoons were spent leisurely sampling wines in piazzas overlooking century old works of art. It was a total disconnect from everyday life and a complete immersion in "La Dolce Vita." The few days Vito and I spent in Rome seemed like a full two weeks.  

I got inspired to break down the whole concept of "La Dolce Vita." Clearly living la dolce vita is not only for the Romans, though of course the architecture, cozy piazzas to canoodle over a glass of wine, and the moonlight basking in the cool surfaces of smooth naked marble forms...do help to put you in the mood. So, what what can we learn from the Italian way of living life sweetly and how can we recreate it right where we are? 

Mid-afternoon espresso and tiramisu in Trastevere, Rome

Mid-afternoon espresso and tiramisu in Trastevere, Rome

Firstly, the translation of "La Dolce Vita," from Italian is "The Sweet Life." It is a way of living that is opulent, full of pleasures... physical and otherwise, full of romance, indulgence and luxury. That's right! I said romance, indulgence, opulence, and luxury! It's OK, I promise. In real terms it means to take time to enjoy life for no other reason but to receive pleasure... oh-oh.

Shockingly vulgar...don't you love it!?   

So how are we going to be a bit more like Marcello and Anita? By taking a few regular every day things and dolce-vitafying* them:
 

Dolce-vita-fy, verb  
(according to the OTSP dictionary)
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To up the glamour quotient, to make more sexy, to make something enjoyable for no reason other then to luxuriate in the moment. To take the ordinary and make it extraordinary. Synonyms: glamorize, sexify, romanticize, elevate

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Regular: Drinking water 
Dolce Vita! Drinking water out of a crystal wine glass with an ice cube and a lemon slice!

Regular: Sleeping
Dolce Vita! Sleeping on 500 thread count sheets wearing naughty little silk something!

Regular: Dinner (in the company of baby spitting peas and 3 yr old re-enacting fire rescue operation on the table)
Dolce Vita!-ish Dinner with a glass of wine, candle light and a bud vase bouquet on the table (+ baby & 3 yr. old)
 
Regular: Manicure
Dolce Vita! Manicure in bright red, magenta, orange, neon or any other color that makes you feel like the type of woman who kisses men in dark alleys and jumps into fountains!

Now that we've extensively defined what La Dolce Vita means we can introduce the challenge for April...

Create Your Dolce Vita Challenge

Reflecting lights in the Tiber river, Rome (More pics from my birthday getaway.) 

Reflecting lights in the Tiber river, Rome (More pics from my birthday getaway.) 

La Dolce Vita moments regardless of the myth, don't "just happen" and they are not only reserved for Rome and Romans. I in fact clearly saw said Romans in their cars yawning and looking not amused stuck in after work rush hour traffic along the Tibor river completely oblivious to the beautiful scenery. This just proves the point that these moments need to be CREATED and furthermore you have to put yourself in the MOOD for them.  

Thus in order to successfully create dolce vita moments you need to have these 2 elements: 

1. Ease of execution - so that when inspiration strikes you it's not a whole big production to set-up a certain atmosphere, situation or experience. Also if it's easy and accessible then you will want to have more and more of these moments!

2. Mood - yes if you yourself don't feel like the star of a sexy Italian movie then you won't really want dolce vita moments. And notice that you have to PUT yourself in the mood, not 'wait' to be in the mood.

The Approach

Plan ahead for spontaneity:
Think about what kind of dolce vita moments you'd like to enjoy, visualize them, think about where they're happening and the kind of mood you're in... Is it a prosecco lunch al fresco? A candle lit evening at home? A rowdy family brunch with freshly baked bread and adorable kids wearing cute outfits? 

Figure out what "props" and "gear" you need to execute the setting. A picnic basket for an impromptu dinner fuori (outside)? Beautiful candles for a romantic dinner per due? Having a clean and organized house to lounge around in or spontaneously invite friends for a cocktail?

- Get your home ready room by room for dolce vita moments 
- Take 'inventory' of what you have and what you need to the dolce vita moments you wnat

Always be in the mood: 
What puts you in a good mood? What makes you 'ready' for an adventure? (And how you define "adventure" is absolutely non of my business...) Does it take a good hair day? Mani/pedi? Working out? Statement necklace? High heels? Latin music? Then make it happen - everyday. What gives you energy and inspiration? Do more of it - daily!

Aspetta! (wait), you say, you mean "spontaneous" and "effortless" dolce vita moments actually require PREPARATION!? Si si, correct! Feel free to call me a soul sucking killer of romance, but you'll be thanking me when you're lounging around in over-sized sunglasses on your sexy lawn furniture sipping Ferrarelle water from long stemmed champagne glass with a strawberry perched on the rim. 

Now let's go prepare for La Dolce Vita!

Doesn't spring cleaning now seem like making love to Adonis in the afternoon on the black sands of a secluded Mediterranean volcanic island!? (Stromboli btw.)
 

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